You are subdued by the talent, character, intellect, appearance of a man, you like him, but he does not notice your feelings. A familiar situation, isn't it? The dilemma is whether to act or not. How to delicately and unobtrusively let him know that he is not indifferent to you, without being imposed? In this article, we will list the most proven ways to hint to a guy that a relationship is possible between you.
Even the most courageous girl cannot always openly declare her love. And it's not about courage. Confessing her love first, she deprives herself of the most reverent moment of the relationship - courtship. How nice male attention and indifference. You feel at this moment a real beautiful lady. But the girl decides to take the first step, trying on the male role for herself. It is not the man who becomes the hunter and conqueror, but the woman. Will we not have to continue to play this role and take on all the problems that arise?
Let's try to go the other way. Unobtrusively win the attention of a lover.
Look closely at the man and his gestures. Perhaps, for a long time, at the sight of you, his heart begins to beat faster. Modesty and timidity prevent him from showing attraction, and you are too unavailable.
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Watching a man, you will understand whether he likes or not. If yes, then it remains only to make it clear that you care about him. If not, don't despair. Step by step we bring the long-awaited moment of reciprocity closer.
Before choosing a seduction tactic, get to know the man better. Someone loves fatal beauties, and someone prefers cordiality and warmth. Try to get the information you need through mutual friends. But there is nothing better than personal communication. Position the man. Now you can let him know that you want more:
Fear insincerity, obsession and vulgarity.
The girl used all the tricks, but there is no result. Feelings overwhelm her, and she decided to tell him about it directly. Such an act can lead a man into confusion, he does not see her as a companion. Being rejected is hard. It is even harder after confession to meet a lover at work or with friends. Prepare for any outcome. We already know how to make a confession correctly.
But tune in to the best - thoughts are material, and each person and each situation is individual. Rely on your feelings and intuition.
and compliments, but are embarrassed to admit it. Hearing something good and pleasant about yourself is important for any person, regardless of gender, social status or age.
Affectionate phrases to your beloved man can and should be said! At the same time, it is important to figure out how to compliment your spouse, whether to call your soulmate “kitten” or “baby doll”, how often to say affectionate words, etc.
A man will be pleased with a warm, gentle expression of your feelings towards him. You should not rack your brains over what compliment to make to the second half: simple but sincere words are more expensive than the most sophisticated praise spoken with difficulty.
Regularly hearing praise addressed to him, any guy / man gradually gains self-confidence and mentally thanks the girl for it.
You know your man better than others, so you should roughly understand which expression he will like and which one will cause indignation or offend.
You can call your loved one:
Pleasant words spoken by a woman to a man should correspond to the situation, behavior, lifestyle, but most importantly, they must be sincere, come from the heart.
Only loving wife knows how her beloved will react to this or that expression. Words spoken out of place or with irony can offend.
If your spouse is fond of the exact sciences, you can admire his mental abilities, if he is an athlete, feel free to compliment him on his excellent body shape.
A brutal man will be pleased to hear that he is strong and courageous, and a military man will be pleased to hear that you are not afraid of anything in this life with him.
Advice! Sometimes you can tell your spouse new compliments, but you need to immediately pay attention to his reaction.
Just one small phrase can give a man confidence, courage, understand that he is needed by his woman and loved by her:
These and similar expressions inspire the male representatives, give them strength.
You can write to your husband about your feelings on paper, asphalt, say on the phone, send an email or utensils.
The main thing is that he must understand that this confession is from the heart, it is real, without falsehood, then it will be much more pleasant for him to hear it.
Be original - come up with such words for your beloved that will penetrate into his very heart and be remembered for a long time. When he meets you, he will remember them.
Examples:
Any man is pleased to hear gentle, pleasant words, they simply adore affectionate expressions, although they do not admit it.
You can say nice things about appearance, services rendered, help at home, etc.
You don’t need a special occasion if you want to please your chosen one.
An affectionate word is possible without a reason:
When gentle compliments are given to guys, it awakens deep feelings, gives young people self-confidence and pushes them to do high deeds for the sake of the lady of the heart:
You can say magic words that give pleasure to both an unfamiliar man and the one with whom a relationship is beginning to be established.
Loud confessions should not be made, but small compliments or gentle phrases can be spoken - this is how you set your future lover on the right wave, show that you value him and wish to continue the relationship.
Examples:
Confessions made to the second half should not sound arrogant, pretentious or false.
If you are embarrassed to give a beautiful compliment to your beloved, write him a note and hang it in a visible place or send an email / phone letter.
Words must be spoken truthfully, sincerely, correspond to the situation and temperament of the man, otherwise they will cause distrust, resentment or anger.
Be unique and original - come up with new affectionate phrases every time, surprise your spouse / boyfriend. Express your feelings in a variety of ways: on paper, chalk on pavement, email, homemade sweet cake with his name, etc. And be sure - soon he will also begin to show attention to you, if he has not done this before!
The woman asks: "There is a man. Serious, strict, businesslike. On the one hand, I really like him, on the other, I respect him very much and am very shy in front of him. I want a relationship with him, but I don't know how to tell him."
Question from a woman last week- tenth or twentieth of similar content):
"I like a man. Serious, strict, businesslike. On the one hand, I really like him, on the other hand, I respect him very much and am very shy in front of him. I want a relationship with him, but I don’t know how to tell him."
My answer:
Letting a man know that you like him is a very exciting thing, especially for modest girls. It is especially scary to hear in response “but you don’t tell me” or, even worse, ridicule, mockery.
However, in fact, the easiest and most effective way is to tell everything to a man as it is. I am a supporter and opponent of uncertainty, fog, hints and wobbles. Therefore, I think directness is the best way. Of course, provided that the man is familiar with you and somehow knows you. Otherwise, in response, instead of a refusal, an even more embarrassing “Who are you?” may sound.
So, let's start with the situation if you are relatively well acquainted with him (and he is with you) and the question "Who are you?" doesn't sound right. It doesn't matter at all whether you know each other in real life or online. Now there are even more successful acquaintances online than in real life, because people spend a lot of time on the Internet. And often relationships are established between people living in different cities.
The simpler and more direct you tell him about your interest in him, the clearer it will be:
1. His attitude towards you. Agree - great. Refuse directly - there will be no need to suffer from the unknown. Will start "neither yes nor no" - see point 2.
2. Who is in front of you. By his reaction you will understand a lot. She will mock, ironize - you're better off that you recognized the jerk even before the start of the relationship. He will hesitate, "neither yes nor no" - his seriousness and efficiency are very doubtful. In addition, it is possible that he is a manipulator, a friendzoner. His answer will show very clearly his character traits.
When a woman makes it clear that she cares about a man, she kills two birds with one stone.
A. Men react very badly to all sorts of vague hints and other symbols. Especially business men. It is useless to make eyes, wag your tail, make eyesore, make vague chats on the net, leave comments and likes with them. Most likely they will perceive this as an ordinary female coquetry, which means nothing. And they will let it pass by themselves, like an unnecessary extraneous irritant. And if you do the same, but a lot and often, then a man in general can find a woman obsessive and strange. Moreover, he may not notice it at all. And when you make it clear that you are interested in him, then these misunderstandings can be avoided.
B. When a woman unequivocally tells a man that she likes him, the man's room for moves and wobbles is sharply reduced. In fact, he must choose between yes and no. Even by the nature of the fluctuations, one can determine the mood of a man. For example, direct questions. He does not give a clear answer, because he does not know you well. Or because there's something about you that he doesn't like. Or he's just already in a relationship, just not telling you to keep you on the bench. Or he is just a mumbler who does not know what he wants and is not able to make a decision. So it will hesitate, doubt, rush between alternatives. That's how much useful information woman gives directness and honesty.
It is not necessary to say “I like you, I want a relationship with you” from the first word. If you are modest and shy, very afraid of rejection, then you can first probe his attitude towards you. Is it positive or negative? Or neutral, indefinite? How to proceed, I explained in the article "How to understand that a girl likes you."
However, there is no need to be afraid of rejection. Better a clear rejection than weeks, months or even years of suffering in the unknown and suffering from unrequited love.
But the reverse option, the consent of the man, will quickly direct the matter in the direction you need.
If he does not know you very well, then it is better to attract his attention indirectly at first. The easiest, but far from the most effective way is communication on common topics. Why the simplest is understandable. It doesn't require any pressure, it's easy.
Why not the most productive? Because really businesslike, busy men who do not have fun on the Internet, but are busy with work. They might think you're a chronohead with your chatterboxes. A frivolous lady who just kills time for meaningless, empty chatter. Kills THEM time. Therefore, there is a big risk of being ignored or even hearing a strict request from a man not to take his time for trifles. For example, this is what I do.
So I suggest another way. It is more difficult, but much more effective. This is helping a man in his affairs. Just offer him your help. Do you even know what he does? By the way, this is a great test of your feelings. A woman who is in love is drawn to help her man. So there are no real downsides. But there is an opportunity to get to know the affairs of a man and with himself, his character, values, worldview. This is a huge plus. Nothing brings people closer than a common cause. It is only important that this desire to help him be sincere. A false desire - when a woman is not interested in the affairs of a man, she just wants to quickly and probably tie him up - is quickly recognized.
Your sincere help to a man will serve you well in the development of your relationship. It is unlikely that any man will dismiss his like-minded person and faithful assistant. Remember: a normal man's mistress is easy to find, but a faithful companion is much more difficult.
How to respond to rejection? No way. An honest refusal without manipulatives and mockery is normal. The man may be in a relationship. He may like a different type of woman. Yes, you never know! It is better to cry at least once because of the rejection than to torment yourself with uncertainty for months and even years. And for pumping self-confidence and fighting spirit, read my article "How to respond to female refusals". It is written for men, but the essence is the same.
How to react if he doesn't say yes or no? There are three options here:
1. He is not familiar with you, your character, maybe he treats you with apprehension, distrust. It differs from the other two options in that the man is interested in you and tries to get to know you better. Initiates contacts: dates, Skype calls. Asks a lot of questions about you, your attitude to certain things, situations. Especially serious men sometimes it feels like an interrogation, but don't be scared. It's not out of spite or suspicion. Just like that, thoughtful men are trying to understand what kind of person is in front of him. Such behavior of a man is a sign of seriousness and purposefulness. This is a good sign. Why - you will understand in comparison with the other two points. He treats your activity positively, supports it in every possible way.
2. He is a weak-willed, insecure person who himself does not know “yes” or “no”. To be more specific, a weakling who doesn’t know how to make decisions is always rushing between alternatives, running away from choice and from solving problems in general. He does not have a clear opinion and a strong position on any issue. Including about you. This is evident in his passivity. He does not seek to know you better in order to decide "yes" or "no." At the same time, he will accept your steps with joy. Actually, this is how you can recognize such a person - by the discrepancy between your own passivity and positive attitudes towards your activity. However, your activity may one day cause resistance. For example, if it leads to the need for a clear choice. In particular, if you offer him to move in.
3. He is an ordinary manipulator, but he sees you as a contender for the friend zone or for the bench. This can be seen from his frivolous attitude towards your activity and unwillingness to get to know you better. He, in principle, does not care what your character is and what kind of person you are. For the friend zone, it doesn't matter.
If you let him know that you care about him, and he met it with irony, ridicule, mockery. Well, sometimes we get bastards. And you were lucky enough to run into one of them. It is very good that his nasty essence was revealed before you began a serious relationship. Is it worth it to regret that fate divorced you with such a person?
Warning: think, remember, did you do something to him that could cause irony? For example, if you once said “no”, dynamite or left him, and now you decided to return to him or get him out of the friend zone, then only you yourself are to blame. Sad comebacks can really only make you laugh. Or maybe from the first words you started making ridiculous demands and conditions with the same result. You only have yourself to blame here.
Honesty, directness, openness make life very difficult for manipulators of either sex, who find it more difficult to maneuver. The ideal conditions for manipulatives are a fog of uncertainty. And directness and openness disperses this fog in no time. But healthy relationships make it much easier. When you know that your feelings are mutual, moving towards each other is much easier and more enjoyable.
Ecology of life: Today I want to give you some tips on how to tell a man that he is special. It is generally accepted that men should be strong, self-sufficient and strong in spirit. Why praise them and say what you appreciate?
Today I want to give you some tips on how to tell a man that he is special.It is generally accepted that men should be strong, self-sufficient and strong in spirit.
Why praise them and say what you appreciate?
After all, this man should be a romantic who carries his beloved in his arms. And her destiny is to take this care.This is the point of view of the masses.
But relationships are a two-way street. Therefore, teamwork is needed to improve them.
In most cases, men know how to do their part of the job - some know how to compliment women almost from the cradle.
But in the second half of the team, quite often there is a complete misunderstanding about how to show a man that he is appreciated.
The following 8 tips will always help you cheer up your man and take your relationship to the next level. Trust me, he will be very grateful for it.
1. Compliment him
This advice may surprise many women, because it is usually them who give compliments, not them.
But we (men) are also pleased to realize that you (women) admire some of our qualities, skills, actions, etc.Therefore, do not be lazy to say once again how courageous he is, what delicious kebabs he can make and how subtle his sense of humor is.
This is the best way to cheer up your man during times when he is sad (yes, in principle, at any other time).
2. Ask him for advice more often
Women often talk about their problems to men, not because they want to solve them, but simply because they need a listener.
However, finding a solution is one of the basic male instincts.
Therefore, if you want, for example, to cheer up a man, ask him for advice. This will make him feel useful, needed and even necessary.
At such moments, his ego inflates like a balloon and he feels how much your life depends on him.
3. Wear clothes that he likes.
I am sure you have heard more than once that men love with their eyes.
But just looking good is not enough.
If a man sees you in a dress that you don't like too much, but you know that he likes it, he will understand that you are making every possible effort to look good especially for him.
4. Give him undivided attention.
I know that you can quite simultaneously correspond with friends in the social. networks, paint your nails, talk on the phone and watch your favorite series with your lover.But most other men don't know or don't believe that women are multitasking creatures.
Therefore, it is quite common for a man to complain that you are wasting your attention on a bunch of things, instead of devoting yourself completely to what you two do.In this regard, adult men are worse than small children. They need female attention completely and completely. No combination!
Therefore one of better ways show a man that he is appreciated - fully focus on him during communication and any other joint activities.
5. Be someone you can trust
Most men do not like to show their emotions, creating a strong and impartial image. But, as you know, keeping emotions in yourself is bad.And if a man closes, then he does not feel so comfortable next to you to trust and tell what worries him.
Be sincere. Say you trust him. Do everything possible to make him decide to open up emotionally to you.
6. Be gentle with him
It's as simple as it is often forgotten.
Small, seemingly insignificant things, such as a hand in hand, your head on his shoulder, or a long hug, can say a lot.But first of all, this is a way to show a man that he is appreciated, that next to him you feel protected.Also, it once again emphasizes your feelings for him.
7. Show that he is your priority.
We all have jobs, hobbies, relatives and friends. And, of course, all this takes time.Make sure you give him enough of this valuable resource.After all, time is the most important gift you can give someone.
8. Say you appreciate him
Sometimes it’s better to directly tell a man that he is special and takes an important place in your life than trying to tell him the same thing through any actions or hints that, by the way, not everyone is able to understand.
You can start right now
The described ways to show a man that he is appreciated do not require any prior preparation on your part. Of course, except for the desire to tell a man that he is special.
What were we talking about? Compliments, advice, attention, affection, prioritization - it's all quite simple. Therefore, you can start acting right now.
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Date: 07/31/2017
School of Yuri Okunev
Hello dear readers! To please your loved one nice words It is absolutely not necessary to have a literary or even more poetic talent. After all, it is possible to express thoughts and feelings in the simplest words, and this will not diminish their significance at all.
Do you still doubt that you will be able to do it beautifully and romantically enough? Especially for you, I decided to talk about how to write a truly sincere SMS in my own words to a loved one.
A day started with a ray of goodness received by SMS from a lady of the heart may not be the most successful and productive, but it will definitely be more joyful. Every day you can come up with new wishes. They can be tied to those cases and problems that your boyfriend has to solve during the day. Or they can simply contain affectionate words designed to support, give a charge of vivacity and optimism. So, we start with those same two words of welcome, and then the options can be, for example, like this:
Wishes for good dreams in SMS to your beloved guy will be set up not only for good dream but also for a good awakening and a good new day. In the same way as in the previous version, you can write about anything. The main thing is to show that the young man is very dear to you, important and necessary.
Experience shows that a long separation, although it brings a lot of grief, is the test that truly loving couples can handle. Therefore, do not despair and just patiently wait for the cherished moment of the meeting!
They say that not very easy and simple love usually encourages writing poetry. But if you don’t have a craving for this, then feel free to write SMS in prose to your beloved man. It seems to me that it is better to express your feelings in simple words than in iambic pentameter.
I told you that there can be any number of reasons for a message. Why not include this one as well. After all, eating is an important part of our daily routine. And in order for food to bring more joy, it will not be superfluous to flavor it not only with spices, but also with bright feelings.
Having found her “prince”, a woman usually soon begins to think about how she would like to see relationships through time. She tries on her chosen one first the image of a guy, then a groom, and there she already begins to think about how she will write SMS about love to her husband and father of her children ... If you have been together long enough, and discussing such dreams is not something out of the ordinary , then you can safely share your thoughts with a partner.
Helps you better understand how to build happy relationship with a partner and herself, Helen Andelin's book "The Charm of the Feminine." Very simple, very feminine, about the most pressing questions, the answers to which often determine the quality of life. I recommend it to my readers!
Well, for my part, I am ready to answer any of your questions on the topic of the article. If you have any, feel free to share them in the comments!
That's all for today. Don't miss out on new posts. The site news subscription function will help you a lot with this. See you again and all the best! Yours, Yuri Okunev.
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I will become like, today, Pushkinskaya Tatyana and I will be bold, not as usual. I will open the door to the treasury of my hidden feelings and desires for you. My dearest, recently man, this is a timid declaration of love that suddenly captured my whole being. You managed to stir up an avalanche of unspent tenderness in my heart and revive a young passionate girl. It does not matter that the gray hairs silvered our temples, Cupid did not miss - these arrows were intended for us. And it was like an explosion of a huge ball with multi-colored paints. These paints splashed onto our lives, coloring everything around, giving our destinies a special meaning. Thank you, beloved, for the fact that you are, such as you dreamed of, already, it would seem, completely hopeless. Love you! I love everything about you! Walking in the park ruffling the multi-colored carpet of autumn foliage, listening to the sound of rain, admiring the flowers, absolutely everything next to you becomes very special. I love!
My favorite, the only man! You are my most important person in life. You are my support, you are very reliable, sensitive and calm. I always look forward to our meeting. I am incredibly pleased with you and it is good when you are near. All my life I want to walk beside you, along the same road of love and not turn anywhere. I am extremely grateful to fate for giving me you, the most beautiful man on earth. I'm proud of you, my dear, and I love you more than life! May our happiness and love last forever. May our every meeting, every touch, every word spoken to each other become even more pleasant. All my tenderness, affection, all my unspent love, I want to give you, my only and dear man! I love you! I will love you all my life!
My dear boy, every time I am surprised at how you and I coincided in a single thought, in a single impulse, in a single dream. You have become a real knight for me, the one who, many centuries ago, could give his life for one look. beautiful lady heart. I didn't even believe that men like that existed. modern world. How pleasantly wrong I was. One day, when I met you, I felt that a real feeling settled in my heart, completely unknown to me until now. You are the first man that brings a blush to my cheeks when I think about it. You are the first man whose eyes I remember before falling asleep. You became the first man in my life and in my heart. Thank you for being so gentle and kind to me. For the fact that you respect me, you protect me. For the fact that you can listen to me and hear, I understand the very essence of me. Thank you for loving me!
Today is such a beautiful day, everything around froze in anticipation of some incredible miracle. The air rings with the bells of happiness, the sun shines in a special way. This day seemed to have been specially created by God so that I would confess to you my most secret feelings, so that I, for the first time, would say words of love to you. Every person in life wants to love and be loved in return. Every person on this earth is looking for his half, the one who will become the only one forever. And today I want to whisper to you so that no one knows my secret and I want to shout so that the whole planet knows that I love you. That I found what I dreamed of for so long. I met you my perfect man. And I knew the feeling of love and felt mutual love. It is so important, it is so reverent, it filled me with indescribable emotions. I became the happiest person in the world. Thank you for giving me these feelings, thank you for the love.
I want to tell you, my love, that every minute spent with you is very special. How many things, when we are together, side by side, can bring real pleasure to the soul. I love it so much when we talk about all sorts of little things and about vital things, when we dream of something incredible, we talk about space, about universes, about the universe. I love it so much when we are silent next to each other, silent, probably knowing each other's secret thoughts, silent, listening in complete silence to the beating of our hearts. I love walking with you so much, no matter where and when, it doesn’t matter if it’s morning, afternoon, evening, or late at night. It makes no sense whether the snow is falling, whether the leaves are rustling underfoot, or whether our feet are wet in puddles. The main thing is that we are walking side by side, shrouded in an invisible haze of love mist. And, even in moments when you cannot be near me, I am not upset, because you are still in my thoughts, in my heart, in my soul. And that makes me perfectly happy. I love you.
Every day, with all my heart, I thank heaven and fate for this incredible happiness - to love and be loved like that. wonderful person How do you. Just the mere thought of you, my heart contracts and begins to produce blood in a double rhythm, my pulse quickens and my head starts to feel a little dizzy. What can I say about my condition when you are around. Real wings grow in me, and I fly with you to the heavens of love and happiness, and soar there, in clouds of tenderness, affection, passion and all the feelings that you evoke in me. I love you very much, and this love gives me an incredible feeling of lightness, freedom, optimism and inspiration. With you next to me, I became a completely different woman, I am no longer afraid of any hardships and sorrows, I am not afraid of sadness. I constantly enjoy life, every morning and, of course, every minute spent next to you.
My gentle, affectionate, dear and the best man in the world! I want to confess to you my feelings that break my heart, I want to give you all my tenderness and care, affection and attention! I love you! Do you hear? I love! I pray to heaven that our feelings are mutual for more than one year, because you and I are halves of one whole! My feelings every day, become stronger and stronger for you. I so want to snuggle up to you, and feel protected from all sorrows and hardships. I love you, and my confessions are sincere and pure! Only with you I feel complete harmony and fusion of our souls, only with you I am truly happy! You are always attentive, kind and caring. I will try to make you the most happy man on the planet! I trust you in everything and want to be with you all my life! I give you this confession, as a token of our eternal love!
I used to think a lot about love and relationships, but I didn’t even imagine that this was possible! To know a person enough to guess his thoughts and desires, to know what can please him and what can upset him. And at the same time, understand that your loved one is a completely different universe that you can explore all your life without knowing it to the end. I didn’t even suspect that such words as “I love you”, even though you say them to me a hundred times a day, will excite my heart every time and sound completely different. I never thought that next to a loved one, a day can fly by like one minute. I did not think that it was possible to love so much that each separation, even if not for long, would be like a small death. I never imagined that a once complete stranger could become so close, so dear. Now I know for sure it happens!
Since my eyes met your eyes, you have become the only and most important meaning of my life, my entire existence. Every morning, just having time to open my eyes, I begin to think about you, and every night, before falling asleep, I think about you, remembering every moment from our past and rejoicing, re-experiencing all these feelings. And even when I fall asleep, I see you in my dreams, for sure I smile in my sleep every night. I want to shout about my love on every corner, tell everyone I meet about it, write poems, novels. I cannot imagine my life without your dearest eyes, without your dearest and most beautiful smile, without your pleasant voice - without you! I need your warm hugs, your kisses that burn to the very heart, your confessions. You have become my happiness, my joy, my luck and my inspiration. I very love you!
My beloved boy, everything that is connected with happiness in life, all this is connected with you, about you alone my dreams and desires, with you my feelings and sensations open like a tender bud of a young rose! I am sure that it is you who is destined for me. Only you alone live in my heart, only you I call desired and loved. I want our sparks of sympathy to flare up between us into a huge flame of passion, fidelity and mutual feelings - love! May our quivering, crystal love overcome all adversity, because love is the strongest feeling that exists in this world! And it's so good that this feeling visited us at the same time. My only man, I am so grateful to fate for you! You are the person that I dreamed about all my life, looked for with my eyes and heart, and found! I love you my dear, and I will not give you to anyone! After all, I've been waiting for you for so long!
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Is it a secret to anyone that a woman who seeks happiness in a relationship hopes to be constantly shrouded in the care and attention of her beloved man? But reality tells us that not everything is as rosy in life as dreams paint. Sometimes it seems that it is already impossible to open a man's heart for love. Is this so, let's figure it out together with the site sympaty.net.
It’s not easy to meet your man and it’s not easy to always be loved by him like on the days of the first dates. Often we seem to wander in the dark in a relationship, lose hope of discovering the heart of a man.
In fact, there is nothing that cannot be corrected if you have patience and arm yourself with knowledge of psychology.
Often we, both men and women, make one mistake - we forget that we are different. We may have similar interests and outlooks on life, but different needs and ways of expressing ourselves.
So let's move on to the principles that will help you open the heart of your beloved man. Let's call them keys. There are actually a lot of keys, but in this article we will analyze one bunch of three.
Remember that these keys will not help open a man's heart if you only want to get, hack, manipulate.
Everything you do must come from the heart. You need to apply these keys with all responsibility, love and respect for yourself, for your partner and for your relationship.
Men are so arranged that they want to be needed, they want to be significant in this world and for the people who are dear to them. Men should see that their aspirations and goals are necessary for someone and make someone happy.
But if you absolutely can do everything yourself, neglect men, their help and their knowledge, they see no point in being close to you.
With all their desire to be needed, men want to be free. They want to do all the work voluntarily, when they are ready for it. And to do as only they can do - men, without prompting how, why, for what.
It will not be easy to open your man's heart if showing how much he is needed prevents him from being free.
Desirable:
It seems to you that the man is not good enough, and you think that you can remake him? Or you build a relationship with a man, hoping that over time new qualities will open in him, for which you will love him later.
I'm afraid it will be a long wait. You can open the heart of a beloved man only by accepting him completely.
Men begin to develop and change for the better only after they are accepted and loved for who they are. If you feel that your strength to accept is not enough and you are not happy, it is better to leave that man alone.
Desirable:
These keys work only at the same time when a man sees that you need him, while he is free and you accept him as he is. Then it will be easy for you to open the heart of a man.
In order to use these keys, you need to show wisdom, love, sincerity and learn to be happy yourself. And even though it's more difficult, it's worth it.
Get to know yourself, find out what you want from life, what makes you happy. Then you can easily understand what the man who is next to you wants.
Always be yourself and let the loved one next to you feel like themselves. Where there is mutual understanding, respect, trust and acceptance, love develops there. In such a relationship, it is easy to go through life together.
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Sometimes women and girls believe that it is impossible to be the first to confess sincere love, because this is the prerogative of a man. But some guys are simply afraid to take the first step and therefore hide their feelings from their beloved. Therefore, in order not to wait forever for the cherished words, it is worth discarding prejudices and confessing your love to your most beloved man yourself.
Before you open your feelings, consider whether you can do it. To be the first to confess to a man is not easy, for this you need determination and confidence in your feelings. If in doubt, do not rush, it is better to postpone this moment. Make sure that the man is ripe to hear the words of love.
When moral preparation is over, you should carefully consider what to say and when it is best to do it. The right time and place is the key to a positive result. You should not talk about tender feelings when he is not in the mood, busy with work or watching a football match. Indeed, in such a situation, the words will simply pass by the ears.
When choosing a place, you need to proceed from his preferences and attitude to romance. You can say that you love while walking in the park or on the banks of the river, at a romantic dinner in a beautiful restaurant or during an intermission at the cinema, nothing prevents you from saying goodbye, when he escorts you home or before leaving on a business trip.
You can say “I love you” to your husband every morning by making him coffee in bed or during breakfast, preparing your favorite treat.
Be direct, avoiding vague phrases so that he understands that this is a declaration of love. At this moment, the main thing is not to be nervous, but to radiate confidence.
A tete-a-tete love confession is the most reliable method for those women whose beloved man is married, because only in this way you are most likely to be able to keep him a secret.
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This is an original and cute way. It has been proven that intuitively a person tends to trust a whisper. The advantage of the method is that you can unexpectedly whisper words of love to your chosen one: spending time with friends, sitting in a cafe, theater, cinema, when there are a lot of strangers around. A declaration of love to a beloved man, uttered in a whisper, has a passionate, and sometimes erotic character.
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This option of a declaration of love can be chosen if the beloved man is at a distance or you are afraid to look into his eyes at such a crucial moment. The advantage of this method is that you can peep into a pre-written speech. The disadvantage of revelation by phone is that you will not be able to visually assess the reaction of a loved one, and by the intonation of the voice, this is not always possible.
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If you often communicate with your beloved man on the Internet, then you can send a declaration of love by personal message, choosing beautiful and tender words that describe the fullness of your feelings. Another option is to paint graffiti on his "wall" if you don't mind making the confession public. If you are afraid to write directly, you can send a song that tells about your feelings.
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If the beloved man is not around now or there is no way to say a declaration of love out loud, SMS will be a good way. In addition, you can at the same time admit that you do not dare to tell him about your feelings directly. If the message is received, but there is no answer, check if he received the message. But if the answer is yes, you should not ask clarifying questions or take other steps, the next move is for the man.
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